SIRI HUSTVEDT on Love, Grief & Her Late Husband PAUL AUSTER
/Author SIRI HUSTVEDT Remembers Her Late Husband, PAUL AUSTER
Grief happens because you don't stop loving the person who died. The person doesn't exist in your reality anymore. The everyday is not colored and shaped by this other human being, but you don't stop loving the person. So grief is a particular kind of unrequited love. And probably without that dynamic relationship with this person, I would be someone else. And he would've been someone else. I mean, Paul died before me. But we were, I think, hugely important to the drama of becoming in our own lives.



















